I may have met you already, seen, have a conversation with you or haven’t yet. We may have been living in the same place or maybe you're currently on the other side of the earth. I might get to be with you today, tomorrow or the coming years ahead, and I would like to tell you that I am not looking for you yet.
The transition from being a boy to becoming a man is an enormous task for me to do. It has a lot of responsibilities and preparations needed to take and put on to my shoulders. I need time to prepare likewise I need you to keep waiting. All these major decisions in my life now are getting tough and could results to bigger problems or greater success that will affect both of us in the next few decades. I need you to understand all of these to give you more courage and determination to keep on waiting until the time comes that we are both ready for each other.
I am not saying that I’ve already become a man, honestly, I have made so much mistakes as of now. As part of these failures along the way, I have already been into some relationships some are too serious and some are just out of wanting fleeting pleasures due to the fact of being a selfish boy. Respecting a woman is also one of my flaws which truly requires time to develop before we met each other because I might just hurt you for I am not yet ready. Financially stable is another one of my greatest struggles in which we must know that having a job is not stable in itself and having a business or my own company is the key this stability.
Maturity thru wisdom is what I truly need right now. Being able to know the right decisions to make and right actions to take. But I would like to tell you that I am not alone in this adventure because I have God with me. You might not know Him already but I am so sure that He could help me to achieve all the things that I need to do because I have seen it already in my past experiences before with Him. I would also like to tell you though this might sound hard but I don’t need you as of this moment. The fact the Lord is with me, I can already do all things thru Him, even in the times that everybody fails me. Next to Him is my family that took me years to know how to value them. Counselors, mentors, and friends are also with me which enables me to do and will do wonderful things. As you can see I don’t need your presence…
But, I believe that when the time comes for us to meet, you are going to be my partner. Partner in all of my endeavors that will doubled my accomplishments because each time I am done with the day you are there to provide all my home needs and the one who will balance and help me analyzes situations each day. There will be a lot of pressure when that day comes and with that I need you to stretch your patience as much as possible while controlling the words that would come out of you. I understand that there will be times of misunderstanding between two of us but the fact the I am preparing, I will extend all of my understanding to be not a one sided and open up my mind on your place. And then being parents is a huge responsibilities for us, that’s why we both need to prepare. Me as a father which requires a lot of wisdom to handle all responsibilities for our children and you as a mother to comfort them just like a hen how she takes care of her children. Yes, indeed, these are big words for both of us right now but that is the reality that we need to embrace.
Entering into a relationship is a very serious matter as what I've discovered and learned. Yes, it is a very serious in contrast with our youth today who foolishly gets into it with unprepared self, which I also experienced. If we really wants to be in a great marriage someday, we both need to become the best for each other first, day by day. It is practically hard and tough but we will reap what we saw when our time for each other comes. Just keep on waiting and believe in me that I will come.
Yours Truly,
Your Future Husband.
This is a man's version of "To the man I hope to love someday" by Din Cuenca
http://thoughtcatalog.com/din-cuenca/2016/07/to-the-man-i-hope-to-love-someday/
The transition from being a boy to becoming a man is an enormous task for me to do. It has a lot of responsibilities and preparations needed to take and put on to my shoulders. I need time to prepare likewise I need you to keep waiting. All these major decisions in my life now are getting tough and could results to bigger problems or greater success that will affect both of us in the next few decades. I need you to understand all of these to give you more courage and determination to keep on waiting until the time comes that we are both ready for each other.
I am not saying that I’ve already become a man, honestly, I have made so much mistakes as of now. As part of these failures along the way, I have already been into some relationships some are too serious and some are just out of wanting fleeting pleasures due to the fact of being a selfish boy. Respecting a woman is also one of my flaws which truly requires time to develop before we met each other because I might just hurt you for I am not yet ready. Financially stable is another one of my greatest struggles in which we must know that having a job is not stable in itself and having a business or my own company is the key this stability.
Maturity thru wisdom is what I truly need right now. Being able to know the right decisions to make and right actions to take. But I would like to tell you that I am not alone in this adventure because I have God with me. You might not know Him already but I am so sure that He could help me to achieve all the things that I need to do because I have seen it already in my past experiences before with Him. I would also like to tell you though this might sound hard but I don’t need you as of this moment. The fact the Lord is with me, I can already do all things thru Him, even in the times that everybody fails me. Next to Him is my family that took me years to know how to value them. Counselors, mentors, and friends are also with me which enables me to do and will do wonderful things. As you can see I don’t need your presence…
But, I believe that when the time comes for us to meet, you are going to be my partner. Partner in all of my endeavors that will doubled my accomplishments because each time I am done with the day you are there to provide all my home needs and the one who will balance and help me analyzes situations each day. There will be a lot of pressure when that day comes and with that I need you to stretch your patience as much as possible while controlling the words that would come out of you. I understand that there will be times of misunderstanding between two of us but the fact the I am preparing, I will extend all of my understanding to be not a one sided and open up my mind on your place. And then being parents is a huge responsibilities for us, that’s why we both need to prepare. Me as a father which requires a lot of wisdom to handle all responsibilities for our children and you as a mother to comfort them just like a hen how she takes care of her children. Yes, indeed, these are big words for both of us right now but that is the reality that we need to embrace.
Entering into a relationship is a very serious matter as what I've discovered and learned. Yes, it is a very serious in contrast with our youth today who foolishly gets into it with unprepared self, which I also experienced. If we really wants to be in a great marriage someday, we both need to become the best for each other first, day by day. It is practically hard and tough but we will reap what we saw when our time for each other comes. Just keep on waiting and believe in me that I will come.
Yours Truly,
Your Future Husband.
This is a man's version of "To the man I hope to love someday" by Din Cuenca
http://thoughtcatalog.com/din-cuenca/2016/07/to-the-man-i-hope-to-love-someday/
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