It is not easy to remain single, though many people view singleness as weakness. Not everyone can stay single because there are lots of pressure and sometimes discrimination if you chooses to become one. Madaming tao kahit mga kaibigan mo o mga taong malapit sayo ang magpapabigat para pumasok ka sa relationship.
If you know your priorities in life, it will add up to your courage. Isa sa mga katrabaho ko ang nagsabi na "The more na nagiging matured ka, the more na mas pipiliin mong maging single muna". Pero bakit madami pa din ang pinipili na lang sumabay sa agos at maghanap ng maghanap ng partner nila sa buhay? Kahit masaktan o kahit ang totoo naman is hindi pa talaga ready.
Mahirap maging single dahil iba na ang tingin ng karamihan sa status or stage ng buhay na to. You can't blame them for what they are thinking because they once try to become single but because they have no courage they simply quit and go with the flow of this world. But the good thing about being single is it is already proven to be useful and tested in becoming successful in life. Majority of life's major decisions are made when you are still single and all the major life's preparations. If in some point of your life when you are single, huwag kang magalala kasi kailangan talaga yan para sa kinabukasan mo. And the practical reality na hindi matanggap ng karamihan is "hindi ka naman mauubusan ng lalake o babae".
I encourage you to remain single as long as you can see that it is necessary for your long term plan and goals in life.
If you know your priorities in life, it will add up to your courage. Isa sa mga katrabaho ko ang nagsabi na "The more na nagiging matured ka, the more na mas pipiliin mong maging single muna". Pero bakit madami pa din ang pinipili na lang sumabay sa agos at maghanap ng maghanap ng partner nila sa buhay? Kahit masaktan o kahit ang totoo naman is hindi pa talaga ready.
Mahirap maging single dahil iba na ang tingin ng karamihan sa status or stage ng buhay na to. You can't blame them for what they are thinking because they once try to become single but because they have no courage they simply quit and go with the flow of this world. But the good thing about being single is it is already proven to be useful and tested in becoming successful in life. Majority of life's major decisions are made when you are still single and all the major life's preparations. If in some point of your life when you are single, huwag kang magalala kasi kailangan talaga yan para sa kinabukasan mo. And the practical reality na hindi matanggap ng karamihan is "hindi ka naman mauubusan ng lalake o babae".
I encourage you to remain single as long as you can see that it is necessary for your long term plan and goals in life.
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